Pre-Marital Counselling in Victoria, BC & Online
Build a foundation of clarity, connection, and conscious communication before saying “I do.”
Why Pre-Marital Counselling Matters
Planning a wedding is exciting — but preparing for a healthy, resilient marriage is even more important.
Pre-marital counselling offers couples in Victoria a chance to slow down, tune in, and build skills that support long-term emotional intimacy and relational strength.
Whether you're newly engaged or approaching your wedding day, this is a powerful opportunity to explore:
Communication styles and emotional needs
Core values, life goals, and expectations
Conflict navigation and emotional regulation
Family patterns and generational influences
Sexual intimacy, roles, and future plans
In a city like Victoria, where many couples balance career, creativity, and nature-inspired living, pre-marital therapy provides a space to deepen your bond intentionally.
What to Expect from Pre-Marital Counselling
This is not about fixing problems — it’s about building awareness and tools before you need them.
Our work together will be:
Collaborative: You and your partner are both heard and supported.
Personalized: We explore the topics that feel most relevant to you.
Non-judgmental: Whether you’ve been together for 6 months or 6 years, this space is for inquiry, not perfection.
Common topics we may explore in our sessions:
How to maintain connection through life transitions
Understanding each other’s attachment styles and emotional needs
Healthy communication and conflict repair tools
Financial transparency and decision-making
Relationship roles, boundaries, and shared dreams
All sessions can be offered online or in-person, so whether you're located in downtown Victoria, Oak Bay, Saanich, or anywhere else on Vancouver Island of British Columbia, you can access therapy in the comfort of your home.
Start Your Marriage with Intention
Marriage is not just a milestone — it’s a living relationship that grows over time. Pre-marital counselling helps you begin with trust, intention, and awareness of each other’s unique emotional worlds.
You're not just preparing for a wedding — you're preparing for a lifetime of partnership.
Let’s explore how you can:
Strengthen your emotional bond
Create shared agreements with ease
Navigate inevitable change with empathy
Located in Victoria, BC, I offer in-person and virtual couples counselling to engaged and committed partners across Vancouver Island and beyond.
If you’re looking for pre-marital therapy in Victoria that blends modern tools with emotional depth, I’d be honored to work with you.
Book a free consultation or reach out with questions.
Let’s build the foundation your relationship deserves.
"The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you." — Rumi
Testimonials
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As she divinely balances the elements of strength and sensitivity, she effortlessly invited me into a space of higher consciousness; where I could experience clarity and see myself as a peaceful being.
E.M.
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A.M.
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I have been inspired and humbled by her simple and powerful ways.
K.A.
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J.L.
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We love Flowa. She is a brave and wise soul offering her gifts to the world.
J.M.
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Flowa is extremely kind, thoughtful, and caring. She has much experience and wisdom with many different modalities and situations.
M.S.
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Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper.
D.K.
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Flowa is a kind and loving teacher who has ancient wisdom of the heart. She uses compassionate listening as she helped me observe my thoughts and perceptions with curiosity releasing all judgments. She meets you where you're at on your journey. I highly recommend Flowa. She is intuitive and lives with integrity.
W.M.
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Flowa is an incredibly kind, caring and powerful individual. She truly cares about her clients and it's clear to see how much of an impact she has on their lives and wellbeing. I would highly recommend her for anybody seeking a professional, heart-based space-holder.
F.K.
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B.T.
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R.B.
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R.T.
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B.G.
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C.M.
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