Poly, CNM & ENM Couples+ Counselling in Victoria, BC
& Online
Support for ethical non-monogamy, conscious communication, and navigating complexity with care.
Love Has Many Forms — So Should Therapy
Polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy (CNM/ENM) are valid, expansive, and deeply human ways of relating. But most therapy models assume monogamy — leaving many partners without proper support.
In Victoria, where alternative relationship structures are increasingly embraced, non-monogamous couples and constellations deserve therapy that is:
Nonjudgmental and well-informed
Fluent in poly dynamics, compersion, jealousy, and agreements
Focused on clarity, consent, and care
This is a space where you can explore your unique relationship map — without having to educate your therapist first.
Topics We May Explore
Depending on your structure and needs, our work may include:
Navigating jealousy, boundaries, and emotional triggers
Processing new partners, compersion, and fear
Conflict resolution within complex relational constellations
Differentiating rules vs. agreements vs. boundaries
Repairing ruptures and maintaining emotional safety
Transitioning between relationship structures (e.g., opening up or closing down)
This therapy supports intentional relating, whether you’re solo poly, in a triad, hierarchy, relationship anarchy — or somewhere entirely your own.
What This Work Looks Like
Sessions are:
Collaborative: You define your structure — we work from your map
Trauma-aware: We consider past relational and cultural influences
Sex-positive and kink-aware: All identities, practices, and choices are held with care
Whether you’re new to ENM or years in, therapy can support ongoing relational hygiene and emotional depth.
Sessions are in-person and online, accessible across Victoria, and Vancouver Island, Vancouver, Kelowna, British Columbia, and beyond.
Poly, ENM, & CNM Couples+ Counselling in Victoria, BC and Online
If you're navigating open relationships, polyamory, or ENM, I offer nonjudgmental, informed support for couples and constellations.
Book a consult — and explore how you can love with clarity, honesty, and self-awareness.
"The work isn’t to fit into rules — it’s to define what connection means to you."
Testimonials
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As she divinely balances the elements of strength and sensitivity, she effortlessly invited me into a space of higher consciousness; where I could experience clarity and see myself as a peaceful being.
E.M.
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I definitely recommend anyone who is looking for methods outside of the conventional avenues to contact Flowa!
A.M.
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I have been inspired and humbled by her simple and powerful ways.
K.A.
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Her professional attitude and personable spirit were so welcome and we came out feeling 200% and so content. We highly recommend Flowa.
J.L.
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We love Flowa. She is a brave and wise soul offering her gifts to the world.
J.M.
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Flowa is extremely kind, thoughtful, and caring. She has much experience and wisdom with many different modalities and situations.
M.S.
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Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper.
D.K.
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Flowa is a kind and loving teacher who has ancient wisdom of the heart. She uses compassionate listening as she helped me observe my thoughts and perceptions with curiosity releasing all judgments. She meets you where you're at on your journey. I highly recommend Flowa. She is intuitive and lives with integrity.
W.M.
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Flowa is an incredibly kind, caring and powerful individual. She truly cares about her clients and it's clear to see how much of an impact she has on their lives and wellbeing. I would highly recommend her for anybody seeking a professional, heart-based space-holder.
F.K.
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Flowa will inspire you. She will open your life in directions you may not have seen before. A path to follow that will lead you to a happier, more liberating and accepting life style. One where you're more open minded and present than you thought possible. So grateful I got to cross paths with her.
B.T.
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The energy Flowa brings is healing alone, but she's also got a strong intuition and uses effective techniques that bring about positive change as well. Through my time knowing Flowa I can honestly say I've become lighter as her advice has helped me, she inspires me, and her knowledge teaches me. I highly recommend booking a session if you're interested and haven't done so already!
R.B.
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We've had a wonderful, positive experience with her, and would not hesitate to see her for any future needs.
R.T.
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I would recommend Flowa to anyone. She is an expert at creating a warm and accepting space. Her calm, reflective nature permit her to pick up on subtleties and guide your conversation and thoughts towards a new direction.
B.G.
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Flowa is powerful and dedicated in her space. I am at a loss to find adequate words to express my deepest gratitude for Flowa. I would recommend her to anybody who is ready to journey beyond their edges. This woman is the real deal!
C.M.
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Flowa is wise beyond her years and an energetic being of service in the world. Calm, soft-spoken, and easygoing, you wouldn't know the power and space she holds.
R.B.
Let’s Connect & Create Magic
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