Marriage Counselling in Victoria, BC & Online
Even committed love needs conscious tending.
Marriage Is a Journey — Not a Destination
Every marriage experiences seasons — of closeness, distance, growth, and redefinition.
Whether you're navigating disconnection, recurring conflict, life transitions, or simply a longing for deeper intimacy, marital counselling offers a safe and supportive space to reflect, reset, and reconnect.
In Victoria, where couples often balance work, creativity, nature, and family life, it’s easy to get caught in the day-to-day. Therapy offers a pause — a way to come back to each other intentionally.
Marital counselling isn’t just for “problems.” It’s for couples who want to:
Strengthen communication
Rebuild trust
Navigate parenting or career stress
Reignite intimacy
Heal emotional wounds
Feel seen, heard, and supported
Common Themes We Can Explore Together
Every relationship is unique, but many couples encounter shared challenges. In our work together, we can explore:
Communication breakdowns: Feeling like you're speaking different languages
Emotional distance: Disconnection, numbness, or loneliness within the relationship
Unresolved conflict: Recurring arguments or unspoken resentment
Parenting & family strain: Misaligned expectations or parenting stress
Intimacy & sexuality: Feeling unseen, mismatched desire, or emotional shutdown
External pressures: Finances, illness, relocation, or family dynamics
You don’t have to go through it alone — or keep repeating the same cycles. In therapy, we create space for curiosity over blame, and repair over retreat.
What Happens in Marital Counselling?
Each couple brings different dynamics, histories, and hopes. My approach is:
Collaborative: You’re the experts on your relationship — I help guide the process.
Relational and integrative: We explore both the patterns between you and the inner worlds within you.
Somatic and trauma-informed: I consider how the body, nervous system, and past experiences show up in your relationship.
Solution-focused, when helpful: Some sessions may offer tools or practices to use between sessions.
All sessions can be held online, serving clients across Victoria, Vancouver Island, and all of British Columbia — from Fernwood to Fairfield, Oak Bay to Saanich, and beyond.
You Deserve a Relationship That Feels Alive
No marriage is perfect — but with presence, patience, and support, couples can move from disconnection to deeper understanding, and from conflict to clarity.
You deserve a relationship that feels:
Safe to be yourself
Supported in your growth
Emotionally responsive, even in hard moments
Marital counselling is not a sign of failure — it’s a sign of commitment.
To yourself, to your partner, and to the possibility of healing and connection.
In-Person and Online Marital Counselling in Victoria, BC
If you're in Victoria and seeking professional, compassionate support for your marriage, I offer in-person and online counselling for couples at all stages of relationship. Whether you're newly married or decades in, your relationship is worthy of care.
Book a free consult to learn how we can work together.
"Love is not about never having conflict. It’s about learning how to repair and return to one another."
Testimonials
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Flowa is extremely kind, thoughtful, and caring. She has much experience and wisdom with many different modalities and situations.
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Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper.
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